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Some Thoughts On Rejection

Some Thoughts On Rejection

“Rejection,” that word that makes so many men cringe.

Why won’t most men approach that group of women that they see sitting by the bar, or go up and talk to that girl during the day eating her lunch?

Again that word “rejection” comes up. It seems that most men are scared of being rejected.

Let’s take a good look at rejection. Is it really such a bad thing and could perceived rejection possibly be a much needed stepping stone onto enjoying more success in your interactions with women?

I would break that down even further and look at things in “short-term” and “long-term” perspectives.

You see, life is about taking risks, and when you are aware that you can never fully grow and move over to that next level of success without risking failure (rejection at some point). You realize that you have no choice in the matter and you will just have to take a chance and go for it!

You hopefully realize that time old saying of “nothing ventured nothing gained” most definitely applies to the game of love.

The fact of the matter is this… If you see a woman that you would like to meet and take a chance by approaching her, you risk potentially getting rejected. That’s a given…

The positive flip side to all of this is that you are also creating an opportunity for yourself to potentially hook up with somebody that you find attractive. This opportunity only occurs because you are approaching her and risking rejection.

In this immediate situation (short-term) of approaching her and taking a risk. If rejection does occur and things don’t work out… This is still an incredibly positive outcome, because you are learning.

In the overall scheme of things (long-term) you will have the much desired success. Taking risks and interacting with women in a broad range of situations, regardless of outcome, is schooling you in the complexities of the dating world. You are learning new skills and proving to yourself that rejection does not hurt you. It actually makes your stronger.

You are also improving your people skills through trial and error and gaining much needed experience.

So is rejection such a bad thing? I would strongly suggest that it’s not. It’s simply the way that you perceive it.

Rejection should actually make you happy as it’s a great indication that you are on the right track, taking chances and learning. You are proving to yourself that you are strong enough to deal with it and can get back out there. I say “the more rejection the better.”

A time will come in the not too distant future where, not only has rejection stopped having a negative emotional effect on you, but it occurs much less as those early hard knocks that you took have allowed you to develop great skills.

Now you know how to approach women and generate much more consistent results, all because you learned to deal with rejection early on.

Take a chance, life is short and remember. Rejection is your friend.

Good luck

About – Colin has been running dating bootcamps, closed group workshops, and working with clients on a private coaching basis since 2006 during which time he has learned a considerable amount about the self development process and how to help men with dating. Colin is a regular blog contributor, writer and speaker based in Sydney Australia.
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